Finding success.

What exactly defines a person's success? Is it getting a high paying job and having expensive name brand things?  Is it having a large family and a successful marriage?  For each person I believe that it's different.  Things that happen in a person's life mold them into the person they are and determine what they strive for. For some school is the most important thing, and for others it's starting a family and working.

Now comes the time when I ask myself, what is it in life that I want to be successful at? I know I want to have a large family, and marry my high school sweetheart.  I know I want to have a successful career.  As what you ask... I honestly can't tell you all I know is I don't want to wait tables for the rest of my life.  I just turned twenty and I think it's time for me to figure things out in my life. I think it's time that I get rid of unnecessary people and things.  My house is so cluttered with items and clothing that I'll never wear.  When I started this blog, I wanted to make changes about my life and so far I've been mildly successful so far.

Within the next five years I want to be married and have some sort of degree to hang on the wall of my house.  I don't want to have any debt (Student loans and credit cards) and maybe a kid or two.  I am tired of sitting around and waiting for something to happen so I'm going to go out and get what I want, success.  I  REFUSE TO BE UNSUCCESSFUL!

If you're going to get in my way, be prepared to be pushed aside. I'm going to achieve all of my goals and have time to spare.  I never want to tell my children that they can't get a toy from the store, because $20.00 is too expensive.  I never want them to have to wake up on Christmas morning and not find what they want or not have fun family vacations. I am determined to be successful not only for me but for my future family!

Always go for what you want and never allow someone to tell you that you can't do something. Find success in what ever it is you want and always make yourself happy.  Don't worry about what others think, I know I'm done caring so much.

I hope everyone is having a wonderful week.

Much love to everyone,

Kay